Love one another with mutual affection; outdo one another in showing honor. - Romans 12.10, NRSV
This is the season for college applications. Students compete fiercely for a spot in the elite schools that promise them a better chance at a lucrative career. As part of this ordeal, applicants solicit letters of recommendation from influential people whose endorsement can give their case some extra juice.
Rebecca Sabky, former admissions director for Dartmouth College, estimates that in her fifteen years on the job she read over thirty-thousand applications. She has read letters of recommendations from former presidents, celebrities, trustees, and Olympic athletes. None of them impressed her as much as one - the only one she ever received - from a high school janitor.
The applicant hit all the marks the other kids did: high class rank, praise from his teachers, lots of extracurriculars. But it was the custodian’s letter that stood out: He said the kid knew each janitor by name, turned off lights someone had left burning, and straightened up classrooms his classmates had trashed. He showed respect to every kid or adult at the school regardless of their place in the peer pecking order. The admissions committee admitted him by unanimous vote.
“Outdo one another” is a possible translation from Romans 12.10, but the King James has, “in honor preferring one another,” which is also valid. The NASV has “give preference.” Even if “outdo” is the correct translation, it is the same idea: the only competition should be in finding ways to help someone else win. Perhaps the best translation is, “Notice the janitor.”
As we go through our work this week, let’s ask ourselves: If the least powerful people in our world had to write our letter of recommendation to Heaven, would the twenty-four elders around the throne give us a unanimous vote?
For more information on this story, see "Check This Box if You're a Good Person," by Rebecca Sabky